A lot of men who’ve recently undergone a breakup often complain, “My ex girlfriend ignores me completely.” Well, yes of course she’s going to want to ignore you. Both of you just underwent a breakup, and at this point, she’s probably trying to deal with a lot of bad emotions. Even if she still has feelings for you, at this point, she’ll want to bottle them up in order to cope with the situation. So if you think your ex is doing everything in her power to ignore you, put things into perspective before you do anything that you might regret later on.
First of all, consider the facts very carefully. Relationship problems happen all the time and for all kinds of reasons. If your own relationship recently ended then it’s important that you focus on what you can do, as oppose to how you feel. Feelings of resentment, fear and uncertainty are very common after a breakup, but these feelings will only cause you to make a mistake if you indulge them. So instead of focusing on your emotions, some of which are telling you that your ex is trying to ignore you, focus instead on your options. Ask yourself “what’s the best way to get your ex back,” and if she really is trying to ignore, try to figure out why that is the case.
Next, try to empathize with your girlfriend. If you think that she’s trying to ignore you then try to think of a reason why that’s the case. It may be because of the breakup or it could be something that you said in the past. It could also be because she just feels like ignoring you. Whatever the reason may be, it’s important that you should be realistic about your assessment, and take each possibility into account. This way, you’ll be able to have an intelligent conversation with your ex if or when she decides to talk to you again.
Finally, it’s important that you don’t put yourself in a vulnerable position. Expose yourself like this to your ex girlfriend and you’ve basically conceded that you’re a desperate wreck. Instead, try to put yourself in a position of power, and what that means is that you should be open to new things, including new relationships. Acknowledge that the past is over and that if you have any chance with your ex then it will only be the chance at trying something new. This particular outlook not only does this make you less vulnerable in the eyes of your ex, it may even help to repair your broken relationship.